erm, I dont feel like writing something here, but then, something interesting came up :)
nahh,
salah satu kelebihan wanita ialah bile kami2 nie mempunyai rahim..alhamdulillah...sebab... :)
1.) Dia bekerja dengan Allah..jadi
‘kilang’manusia.Tiap-tiap bulan dia diberi cuti bergaji penuh..7 sehingga 15
hari sebulan dia tak wajib sembahyang tetapi Allah anggap diwaktu itu sembahyang
terbaik darinya..
2.) Cuti bersalin juga sehingga 60 hari. Cuti
ini bukan cuti suka hati tapi, cuti yang Allah beri sebab dia bekerja dengan
Allah..Orang lelaki tak ada cuti dari sembahyang…sembahyang wajib baginya dari
baligh sehingga habis nyawanya…
3.) Satu lagi berita gembira untuk
wanita,sepanjang dia mengandung Allah sentiasa mengampunkan dosanya..lahir saja
bayi,seluruh dosanya habis.. Inilah nikmat Tuhan beri kepada wanita, jadi kenapa
perlu takut nak beranak? Marilah kita pegang kepada tali Allah. Seandainya
wanita tu mati sewaktu bersalin, itu dianggapmati syahid.. Allah izinkan terus
masuk Syurga.
4.) Untuk peringatan semua wanita yang
bersuami: Seluruh kebaikan suaminya,semuanya isteri dapat pahala tetapi
dosa-dosa suami dia tak tanggung..
5.) Diakhirat nanti seorang wanita solehah
akan terperanjat dengan Pahala extra yang banyak dia terima diatas segala
kebaikan suaminya yang takdir sedari.. Bila dia lihat suaminya tengah
terhegeh-hegeh di titian Sirat,dia tak nak masuk syuga tanpa suaminya, jadi dia
pun memberi pahalanya kepada suami untuk lepas masuk syurga.Didunia lagi, kalau
suami dalam kesusahan isteri boleh bantu tambah lagi di akhirat. Kalau seorang
isteri asyik merungut, mulut selalu muncung terhadap suami dia tak akan dapat
pahala extra ini..
6.) Manakala suami pula mempunyai tugas-tugas
berat didalam dan diluar rumah, segala dosa-dosa anak isteri yang tak dididik
dia akan tanggung ditambah lagi dengan dosa-dosa yang lain. Dinasihatkan kepada
semua wanita supaya faham akan syariat Allah agar tidak derhaka denganNya. Dan
semua lelaki fahami hati naluri seorang wanita & isteri agar tidak derhaka
denganNYA…….
and, out of sudden I feel like wanna marry and have a child :D
hahah!thinking too much cik ct? owh, but, nevermind, ty said, for women to achieve self-actualization, she must skip the third step of maslow heirarcy, which is needs for affiliation.
am I ?
yeah, enough is enough!
need to gether the strength back!
two paper left, so here we go :)
MUET speaking test and account!
tapi, can I take a rest for tonight?I mean like, wanna spend the night writing, and keep on writing until I fall asleep :)
seriously, my life is so boring. she sees nothing except to excel in academic, owh god!I seriously need someone. someone whom she can talk to. sharing the same problem. I wonder, what kind of sickness or desease has poisoned herself till she cant see anything but a scroll. if you ask me, "dont you feel bored?" yes, I do! I seriously need something to set my mind that life is too precious to focus on academic stuff ONLY. but, still :( I envy those who studying abroad! when do my time come?hurmm..
see?updating about academic, I mean like, AGAIN~bosan kann?
erm, people create their blog to reminise some memoir in the future. for them to re-read, laugh, cry, smile~ so, cik ct, if you want to go out from the past, you have to throw away those memories. starts a new live as if you were a newborn baby. but, do I dare enough to do so? sigh~
sometimes, I wish, I can sleep for 1000 years, then, wake up in the new environment with new fellas, and of course the new me. but I cant. I wish I can make a time machine to rewind time and do all the good deed from the beginning. but, yeah, there is never too late to change for the better one :)
hurmm hurmm, actually, I feel empty~ yeah, no matter how much I pray to Allah, still, I feel empty. even sembahyang pown just take a few second!what a shame :( maybe that's the cause la kowt. the most terrible thing, I still believe going to night club, hearing to loud songs, and dance like crazy is the way to get rid of problems~ yes, there is only one thing that can stop me from entering those neraka dunia, which is solat. seriously, I dont know what will happen if I miss solat. yet, solat seems to be easy to me now, I take that for granted. that's why the idea to go to night club came up!astgahfirulah~
then, this is not 'masuk bakul angkat sendiri" okay, but, people said, I have a nice thick-straighted hair, and somehow this kind of feeling come up, "what if I free-hair?must be awesome!"nauzubillah! sometimes, the feeling to further study abroad is not just for the education sake, but, the social life itself, having parties, clubing, free-hair, drugs, alcohol, handsome guy. and for most, open-minded people. I do feel like it is fine to free-hair when you are abroad, because it is their culture. the same case with wearing purdah in mesir, but not in malaysia. it is because of their culture to wear purdah. malu kan?malu sangat bila na mengaku diri ini islam, sedangkan fikiran masih lagi kolot~ and, what can I conclude here is, I've been thinking too much! you're exceeding the limit cik ct!
owh, yeah, about thinking too much, some said, ASB is not containing any riba thiggy, eventhough the scheme is like, you're investing some money in hope to get more. but, isn't it riba? the sources of dividend is gharar too. they said, the scheme is fine because it will help the bumiputeras to increase their standard of living. erk, we should make gambling halal too, 'cause it helps to increase the standard of living right? then, about alcoholic drink, some said, it is okay to consume a little arak as long as you dont get drunk. barbarican, sparkling juice~ the bottle itself is quite similar to alcohol drinking bottle! sometimes, I feel like muslim himself is making islam confused. kalau dah haram tu tetap lah haram kann? owh, well said cik ct, but you yourself? haihh,, need to buy a huge mirror to reflect me myself :(
owh, yeah, I found out something on twitter just now that makes me want to think twice whether to proceed with the plan or just go with the flow. ahh, sooner or later you'll know what's the plan, am not going to tell it now, gonna focus on this finals first :)
*mr. tik tok says "ten past two, you must sleep by now or subuh gajah nanti, eh, subuh dinasour!" so,,
till then~ :)
